Friends & Users

After coming here for 8 months, in addition to the experience i had living here, i have also differentiate 2 kinds of ppl who are close to me.. Friends and Users

Friends:
those that say hi occasionally on MSN and ask about each others life
those that you noe a conversation will be struck once u say "hi"
those that will call you, and say "how are you" before "do you know how to do this this this"
those that will read your blog and leave a comment every now and then
those that will not be there for you when u need them most (family and loved ones will be)

Users:
they will approach you when they need help, either for a listening ear or for assignments
they will not even noe how terrible ur situation is and they will still ask for help
they will not think before they speak, will insult or sneer at you whenever they have the chance
they will not msg you on MSN to talk cock. they will only msg you when their friends do not understand what they are talking about (for e.g school matters)
there will be no calls from them unless necessary cos phone bills are "expensive"
they are the ones that are reading ur blog secretly and laughin at every comment you made
those that need you to make up the numbers to play soccer and the most important thing: share the cost of the booking fee!! (trust me.. once the game stops.. before u can catch ur breath.. u can hear a voice... $5 each person pls!!)
those that need company when they are lonely and forget you once they get all the fun
they will be saying "treat you dinner next time" but next time never comes.

the above comparison may not be fair to others but this is how i feel right now....
sometimes you don really noe what you are doing is right or wrong..
this is life....


"Everything happens for a reason, WE made it happen. Thanks winKz.. happy monthsary!":)